PARENTING EFFECTS

 

EFFECTS OF PARENTING

POSITIVE EFFECTS OF STRICT PARENTING

 

NEGATIVE EFFECTS OF STRICT PARENTING

 

 

NEGATIVE EFFECTS OF STRICT PARENTING

Poor Communication

Academic Failure

Ambiguity of Thought Focus & Direction

Better Ethics & Code of Conduct

Bullied

Social Skills

Mental Health Deficit 

 

 

POSITIVE EFFECTS OF STRICT   PARENTING

 

Punctuality

Time Management

High Self-Esteem

Academic Performance

Lack of Flexibility

Time Management

Poor Communication

I have observed the world for quite some time now. Those parents who were strict tended to fail and were considered like Adolph Hitler; they failed even more because when you become very harsh then it is like a human being to become a rebel someday. So, when any father or mother becomes too strict, their children tend to go into trouble even more because they get confused and nervous very easily, and also such children fall prey to more bad habits than the ones who come from polite backgrounds. Such children do not have confidence all their lives. They never become self-sufficient and confident in their deeds and actions.

Academic Failure

Sports or any creative task needs freedom of mind and soul. People who are not confident and are possessed by bad memories, repress guilt, never reach that level of imagination that is demanded for tasks that are not grasped by children coming from families who act physically with their children, and never get to the top. Freedom of thought is important for the meaningful application of it. Great ideas come from free-thinking souls. That’s called the herd mentality. Do not follow anyone like a herd of mindless souls.

Ambiguity of Thought & Direction

A person needs support and courage to think freely and independently. Support gives you confidence and a clear vision so that you may succeed.

Ethics & Code OF Conduct

 The belief that somebody is supporting you and you are not alone gives you confidence.

Bullied 

People and society bully and blackmail those whom they think are alone and needy. A person who is direct and confident whose parents never gave him the choice to speak up for his rights is without emotions and is so much in a habit of directness and to-the-point approach that they do not feel a lot of feelings and does not get bullied because he is a very confident man or a woman.

Social Skills

 Social skills die out when the environment is authoritarian. When you have to get permission to go to the washroom. Speak when you are asked. Such an authoritarian environment cannot encourage or breed a culture that respects the spirit of freedom of expression. The voice of your own is buried. Children learn from their very homes, so where their parents promote physical punishment and authoritarian parenting rules the environment, children are least concerned with applying their brains; rather, they obey orders like army officers do for their must-prevail chain of command.

Mental health

Like other problems of authoritarian parenting mental health issues will have very rightly will be in deficit. Low self-esteem, anxiety, and depression are rampant because you are trying to suffocate the basic rights of human beings.    

Punctuality

If there is merit and freedom of expression, and beliefs. The individual will be more disciplined and more inclined and interested to act in the most positive manner, which will be appreciated by not only the world outside but also parents, and parents’ support is crucial for the encouragement of the child.

Time Management

Time management is an art taught to those children who are from good families, educated and learned people who are tolerant towards their children.

Their voice is heard and acknowledged, and they have a say in decision-making. They can change or alter decisions held by their parents. Only such families build a culture where time is respected and its worth is sensed and agreed upon.

Self Esteem

Every human being is born respectable, and everyone seeks it as a wish that every human being seeks. Every human being is eligible to be respected and honored. But it is a fact that respect is the least that is expected from a human being of the lowest cadre. Repressions are caused by the trampling of self-esteem, as it is the respect that a human being harbors for himself/herself.  

Academic Performance

A neutral opinion would be that academic performance depends on the endeavor that a student musters in his preparation and how vigilant and creative he acts on the very day of the exam now it depends on many factors some students touch perfection some bend and distort so if a sensitive child is born in a strict family, it will be probable that he would not perform well in it as compared with somebody with the hide of a rhino. Both views coexist. Some say that performance demands constancy, monotony, and discipline; if summed up can summon great efficiency.

Time Management    

Time management can be good where there is freedom of thought and ideas, and creativity can be made possible with a friendly and candid environment. Yes, it is true some people only understand when they feel threat, some just don’t need to be bothered; instead, they just do everything meticulously.

Every human being responds differently to varying circumstances and prevailing conditions, but human beings are civilized animals, so they use reasoning to propagate their idea. Using force is not civil, ethical, not even humane.    

 

 

by USMAN NAJAM

M.A. ENGLISH (UMT)

M.PHIL. ENGLISH LITERATURE (MUL)